1. How important is emotional intimacy to you during sexual activity?

2. I love variety in sex; it's very important that sex is not monotonous.

3. How important is foreplay (caressing) to you before intercourse?

4. I enjoy trying new things in sex: positions, techniques, scenarios, locations, etc.

5. How important is feeling physically attractive to your partner?

6. Do you prefer to take the initiative in sexual activity or wait for your partner?

7. How important is reaching orgasm during sexual activity?

8. I frequently use sex toys and cosmetics during sex.

9. How important is having sex in different places, not just the bedroom?

10. Do you prefer spontaneous sex or planned sex?

11. What frequency of sex is optimal for you?

12. I enjoy watching erotic films with my partner.

13. How important is openly discussing your sexual desires with your partner?

14. I value my partner’s reactions during sex: compliments, dirty talk, sighs and moans.

15. How important is having a deep emotional connection outside of sex?

16. I enjoy role-playing and fantasies during sex.

17. How important is a set duration for sexual activity?

18. Do you prefer gentle and slow sex or intense and fast sex?

19. You and your partner agree on the number of sexual encounters per week.

20. You enjoy the same sexual activities.

21. You both feel comfortable with the amount of non-sexual physical affection.

22. You agree on how long foreplay should last.

23. You feel comfortable discussing fantasies, desires and sexual experiments.

24. You agree on contraception and safety during sex.

25. Does stress from work or daily life affect your sexual desire or function?

26. Do health issues or medications affect your sexual function or desire?

27. Does lack of time or a busy schedule reduce how often you have sex?

28. Does having children or other family members at home make privacy difficult?

29. Do financial problems or life stresses affect your sexual relationship?

30. Overall, how satisfied are you with your sexual relationship?

31. You feel your sexual needs are being met by your partner.

32. How often do you and your partner experience mutual satisfaction during sex?

33. Do you feel an emotional connection with your partner through sexual activity?

34. How would you rate the quality of your sexual communication?